On 24th Feb 2010 completed 5 Years in IT. Full of ups and downs. Every time learnt new things which comprises both good and bad. Started with Zero and today find my self with little bit more than zero but yes still so many things to learn and implement. Still the journey is not yet finished and hope slowly slowly I will reach to my destination.
L earnt so many things but few things which are very close to me are:
1) Be close to your Friend and closer to your enemy.
2)If I am not the best then also I am not the worst.
Thanks to all of them who helped me in my journey and those who craeted problems for me because they helped to develop decision making and fighting ability. :)
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AcceptanceThe-Inner-Strenght
n our day to day life at every step we encountered with some problems.Problem can be physical,Mental.
The Concern is 'Does 'Problems' Exist' and "What is 'Problem'?
I can refer 'Problem' as 'Victim of our own conditioned mind'.
When situation and circumstances are not in our favor and not proceeding according to our expectation then , we started perceiving the things as imperfect & worthless. At the end we conclude the situation as a problem and always ask question that 'Why it is happening with me only?'
Outcome of all these thing is 'Frustration','Grievances','Quarrel'.
The main concern is What went wrong or why we are easily victimized.?
The answer is 'Lack of Acceptance Power'.
'Acceptance' is a kind of inner strength which gives power to control any kind of situation.It helps us to proceed with the situation,Conceive the situation and try to normalize the fact.Acceptance Power shows the maturity level and inner strength.Everybody needs to be courageous to accept the fact or things as they are.'Acceptance Power' gear up and make a bond with situation and helps to avoid frustration.
So "does it mean that every time we should compromise with the situation or giving up in the life ?". The Answer is 'NO,NEVER'.There is no problem in this world which doesn't have any solution.
But the fact is everybody has some limitations to cope up with the problems.Approach towards analysisng the problem,identifying the root cause can vary with person to person.
Summary is We should not have any kind of mess or we should not blame to our fate.We should not have any kind of impression that God has closed all the door.May be 'main Gate' is close but 'side Gate' which is small is still open.We need to find that gate to solve the problem.
It is our inner strength which helps us to cope us with imperfection and with the facts which is hard to be agree.It helps in visualizing the matter comprehensively.
'Power for acceptance' is not a weakness but it a kind of strength.It is an additional quality which helps us to be more closer to 'Reality'.It helps us to establish strong bonding between you and your fate.
I will end my post with few quotes:
A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug.
Your life is like a mirror, if you face it smiling, it smiles right back
It is often easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission.
The Concern is 'Does 'Problems' Exist' and "What is 'Problem'?
I can refer 'Problem' as 'Victim of our own conditioned mind'.
When situation and circumstances are not in our favor and not proceeding according to our expectation then , we started perceiving the things as imperfect & worthless. At the end we conclude the situation as a problem and always ask question that 'Why it is happening with me only?'
Outcome of all these thing is 'Frustration','Grievances','Quarrel'.
The main concern is What went wrong or why we are easily victimized.?
The answer is 'Lack of Acceptance Power'.
'Acceptance' is a kind of inner strength which gives power to control any kind of situation.It helps us to proceed with the situation,Conceive the situation and try to normalize the fact.Acceptance Power shows the maturity level and inner strength.Everybody needs to be courageous to accept the fact or things as they are.'Acceptance Power' gear up and make a bond with situation and helps to avoid frustration.
So "does it mean that every time we should compromise with the situation or giving up in the life ?". The Answer is 'NO,NEVER'.There is no problem in this world which doesn't have any solution.
But the fact is everybody has some limitations to cope up with the problems.Approach towards analysisng the problem,identifying the root cause can vary with person to person.
Summary is We should not have any kind of mess or we should not blame to our fate.We should not have any kind of impression that God has closed all the door.May be 'main Gate' is close but 'side Gate' which is small is still open.We need to find that gate to solve the problem.
It is our inner strength which helps us to cope us with imperfection and with the facts which is hard to be agree.It helps in visualizing the matter comprehensively.
'Power for acceptance' is not a weakness but it a kind of strength.It is an additional quality which helps us to be more closer to 'Reality'.It helps us to establish strong bonding between you and your fate.
I will end my post with few quotes:
A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug.
Your life is like a mirror, if you face it smiling, it smiles right back
It is often easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission.
Role-Of-News-Channels-and-News-Paper
What is the role of Media and do they justify their roles?
These days we usually avoid watchig and reading News due to lack of quality. I have one question how many of us read news paper daily or watch news channels? I am sure that hardly 30-40% people were doing this.
It doesn’t mean that we don’t want to read it or watch it but it means that we are not getting the news in a way that interests us. We have so many news papers and so many channels which run 24*7; still we don’t get all the information which is related with the society or which can contribute in the growth of the society. Most of the time News Paper and News Channels are full of meaningless and bogus news like murders, rapes or accidents or the conflicting statements of our so called great political authorities.
All of them are only focusing on one thing and that is money. At any cost they want to be No. 1, so that they should get more money. Journalists don’t want to come out from their comfort zone and don’t want to take pain of getting meaningful or productive news.
Some of the News Channels conduct Talk Show, where they discuss on some burning issues but the problem is that in 30mins show, half of the time they utilize for advertisement.
Even some time they don’t know what kind of news should be part of ‘Breaking News’. Most of the time it looks like a cheap comedy show.
They should promote meaningful and productive things. They should more concern about the development of country and society.
Still we have some good news Channels which give us meaningful information but that is not enough. . The 24*7 concept is not bad but its implementation is pathetic.
Just consider one fact that in last few years’ people are more associating with networking sites to share their views and concern. Now we all are connected through World Wide Web, so it’s easy to gather the required information.
One side it is good for common man but another side it’s a kind of alarm for Media people. If this will continue then one day no one will take pain to watch News Channels and read news Paper.
These days we usually avoid watchig and reading News due to lack of quality. I have one question how many of us read news paper daily or watch news channels? I am sure that hardly 30-40% people were doing this.
It doesn’t mean that we don’t want to read it or watch it but it means that we are not getting the news in a way that interests us. We have so many news papers and so many channels which run 24*7; still we don’t get all the information which is related with the society or which can contribute in the growth of the society. Most of the time News Paper and News Channels are full of meaningless and bogus news like murders, rapes or accidents or the conflicting statements of our so called great political authorities.
All of them are only focusing on one thing and that is money. At any cost they want to be No. 1, so that they should get more money. Journalists don’t want to come out from their comfort zone and don’t want to take pain of getting meaningful or productive news.
Some of the News Channels conduct Talk Show, where they discuss on some burning issues but the problem is that in 30mins show, half of the time they utilize for advertisement.
Even some time they don’t know what kind of news should be part of ‘Breaking News’. Most of the time it looks like a cheap comedy show.
They should promote meaningful and productive things. They should more concern about the development of country and society.
Still we have some good news Channels which give us meaningful information but that is not enough. . The 24*7 concept is not bad but its implementation is pathetic.
Just consider one fact that in last few years’ people are more associating with networking sites to share their views and concern. Now we all are connected through World Wide Web, so it’s easy to gather the required information.
One side it is good for common man but another side it’s a kind of alarm for Media people. If this will continue then one day no one will take pain to watch News Channels and read news Paper.
BARGAINING
In our daily life most of us must have done Marketing or Shopping or at least accompanied someone.
One cannot miss out one very important factor and that is ‘BARGAINING’.
The concept of ‘Bargaining’ is little bit complex for me. Well any concept is not bad till we use it properly. Whether it is a road side vendor or a professional sitting in an air-conditioned office, all of us deserve to get the actual price for the services or product.
Sometime I feel that this concept is the main reason for inflated Prices. The Seller very well knows that buyer will do bargaining, so quote higher price.
While buying anything all the consumer should focus on quality and the use of the product. Most of the time I saw that people more focus on free items and offers. Before going for these free items or offers, we should understand the strategy and actual cost. Consumer feels so happy if Seller reduces the price.
Bargaining is just a mutual agreement between both buyer and seller which needs a practice to save or take out hard earned money.
Be realistic and be open. Use the concept properly, so that both should satisfy.
One cannot miss out one very important factor and that is ‘BARGAINING’.
The concept of ‘Bargaining’ is little bit complex for me. Well any concept is not bad till we use it properly. Whether it is a road side vendor or a professional sitting in an air-conditioned office, all of us deserve to get the actual price for the services or product.
Sometime I feel that this concept is the main reason for inflated Prices. The Seller very well knows that buyer will do bargaining, so quote higher price.
While buying anything all the consumer should focus on quality and the use of the product. Most of the time I saw that people more focus on free items and offers. Before going for these free items or offers, we should understand the strategy and actual cost. Consumer feels so happy if Seller reduces the price.
Bargaining is just a mutual agreement between both buyer and seller which needs a practice to save or take out hard earned money.
Be realistic and be open. Use the concept properly, so that both should satisfy.
InvestmentTrue-Friend
In todays world we need to be more alert,careful and proactive. Well Everybody wants to enjoy life till end. For this everyone needs to develop the habit of saving and investment.
Most of you people know about the ‘Investment’ and hope some of you must be smart invester.
Yesterday I read one article and just wanted to summarize some of the points which I felt that could be useful for everybody.
Always believe in ‘Golden Rule’ of Investment:
§ Invest early
§ Invest regularly
§ Invest for long term and not short term.(It can vary person to person but try to focus on the fact that if you want to be part of long run then you have to invest for future.)
There are so many plans and options related with Investement.Before doing anykind of Investement ,please consider following points:
1. obtain written documents explaining the investment
2. read and understand such documents
3. verify the legitimacy of the investment
4. find out the costs and benefits associated with the investment
5. assess the risk-return profile of the investment
6. know the liquidity and safety aspects of the investment
7. ascertain if it is appropriate for your specific goals
8. compare these details with other investment opportunities available
9. examine if it fits in with other investments you are considering or you
have already made
10. deal only through an authorised intermediary
11. seek all clarifications about the intermediary and the investment
12. explore the options available to you if something were to go wrong,
and then, if satisfied, make the investment.
Nothing new I have mentioned in my current post,only I tried to summarize some important facts.Hope this will help you.
It will help you during your bad days.
Most of you people know about the ‘Investment’ and hope some of you must be smart invester.
Yesterday I read one article and just wanted to summarize some of the points which I felt that could be useful for everybody.
Always believe in ‘Golden Rule’ of Investment:
§ Invest early
§ Invest regularly
§ Invest for long term and not short term.(It can vary person to person but try to focus on the fact that if you want to be part of long run then you have to invest for future.)
There are so many plans and options related with Investement.Before doing anykind of Investement ,please consider following points:
1. obtain written documents explaining the investment
2. read and understand such documents
3. verify the legitimacy of the investment
4. find out the costs and benefits associated with the investment
5. assess the risk-return profile of the investment
6. know the liquidity and safety aspects of the investment
7. ascertain if it is appropriate for your specific goals
8. compare these details with other investment opportunities available
9. examine if it fits in with other investments you are considering or you
have already made
10. deal only through an authorised intermediary
11. seek all clarifications about the intermediary and the investment
12. explore the options available to you if something were to go wrong,
and then, if satisfied, make the investment.
Nothing new I have mentioned in my current post,only I tried to summarize some important facts.Hope this will help you.
It will help you during your bad days.
MindThe-Powerful-Dictator
Today Morning While doing Morning Prayer, I found that instead of concentrating on prayer my mind was revolving around so many questions, doubts. For a moment I felt that my ‘Mind’ is asking questions to me.
I guess most of us must have encountered with such kind of situation and even in our daily life you can find so many examples. For example like when you do chanting or prayer at that time also you can very well hear the surrounding sounds, noises. It is because mentally you are trying to associate with prayers but in reality your inner and outer harmony is same. You mind is not stable or I can say you are under control of your mind.
We all have cautious and volatile mind which has interfering property. At every aspects of your life it will do interference. You can then feel that your mind tries a lot to dictate you.It has bunch of memories and time to time it will force you to act according to the scenario.
Everyday we all search for happiness and when get it we look for more.If you are not doing this then the Dictator will come to the picture with so many questions,concerns,thoughts and desire. Having a good life,comfortable life,lavish life and because of this whatever we have we just label it and move further.
For being a successful Dictator, Mind will motivate you by One famous line ‘Wish More’. The motivation is good for us but the impact is bad. In search of desire,most of the time we accumulate unhappiness,sorrow and disturbance.
Even during ‘Yoga’ or ‘Meditation’, for few seconds or minutes we can control our mind but for short time. Again after some time mind will persist with another question. It’s hard to rein in the mind.
All these are my thoughts and concern. I would love to know our reader's views.Thanks for reading my DP.
I guess most of us must have encountered with such kind of situation and even in our daily life you can find so many examples. For example like when you do chanting or prayer at that time also you can very well hear the surrounding sounds, noises. It is because mentally you are trying to associate with prayers but in reality your inner and outer harmony is same. You mind is not stable or I can say you are under control of your mind.
We all have cautious and volatile mind which has interfering property. At every aspects of your life it will do interference. You can then feel that your mind tries a lot to dictate you.It has bunch of memories and time to time it will force you to act according to the scenario.
Everyday we all search for happiness and when get it we look for more.If you are not doing this then the Dictator will come to the picture with so many questions,concerns,thoughts and desire. Having a good life,comfortable life,lavish life and because of this whatever we have we just label it and move further.
For being a successful Dictator, Mind will motivate you by One famous line ‘Wish More’. The motivation is good for us but the impact is bad. In search of desire,most of the time we accumulate unhappiness,sorrow and disturbance.
Even during ‘Yoga’ or ‘Meditation’, for few seconds or minutes we can control our mind but for short time. Again after some time mind will persist with another question. It’s hard to rein in the mind.
All these are my thoughts and concern. I would love to know our reader's views.Thanks for reading my DP.
Task-Management
Plan Your Day according to the Daily Task : Prepare a list of task which need to accomplish in a day and priorities it. Be focused on the list so that it will constantly remind you about what needs to be done.
Divide the Time Slot : In case if other members needs to interact with you then allot some time slot to them from your busy schedule. In this way you will peacefully concentrate on your work without any unwanted disturbance.
Be Ready with All the Prerequisite things : To Finish your work if you need anykind of E-MAils,Document,Information then gather them at one place and then start your work.It will save your time and effort.In one line I can say Filter it.
Avoid Deviation : Suppose if your working on some official deadline then try to avoid personal mails and calls if not urgent.Incase if you are working on some personal work then don't bother about official work. I mean to say make a balance between the high priority and low priority work.Don't indulge with any activity which is not a part of your task.
If you are in office then put your status as 'Busy' or 'Do Not Disturb',so that your collegue will not disturb you.
Switch Between the Task : Incase if you are busy with one task and it is taking time to finish it and you are feeling bore or it is irritating you then stop that work immediately and go for another work from the list.To avoid such kind of situation try to follow the 'Real Time Scheduling' Concept.This will help you to keep your interest up for that particular task.
Refeshment : Listen to some smooth and slow music. Drink Water and try to have some food at small intervals.So that mentally and physically you should not have any problem.
Avoid long hour sitting and take break at regular interval.It will keep you fit and fine.A healthy mind only can fight with unwanted situation.
Final thing : Always be a part of 'FEEL GOOD' factor. Enjoy the work and live happily.
Divide the Time Slot : In case if other members needs to interact with you then allot some time slot to them from your busy schedule. In this way you will peacefully concentrate on your work without any unwanted disturbance.
Be Ready with All the Prerequisite things : To Finish your work if you need anykind of E-MAils,Document,Information then gather them at one place and then start your work.It will save your time and effort.In one line I can say Filter it.
Avoid Deviation : Suppose if your working on some official deadline then try to avoid personal mails and calls if not urgent.Incase if you are working on some personal work then don't bother about official work. I mean to say make a balance between the high priority and low priority work.Don't indulge with any activity which is not a part of your task.
If you are in office then put your status as 'Busy' or 'Do Not Disturb',so that your collegue will not disturb you.
Switch Between the Task : Incase if you are busy with one task and it is taking time to finish it and you are feeling bore or it is irritating you then stop that work immediately and go for another work from the list.To avoid such kind of situation try to follow the 'Real Time Scheduling' Concept.This will help you to keep your interest up for that particular task.
Refeshment : Listen to some smooth and slow music. Drink Water and try to have some food at small intervals.So that mentally and physically you should not have any problem.
Avoid long hour sitting and take break at regular interval.It will keep you fit and fine.A healthy mind only can fight with unwanted situation.
Final thing : Always be a part of 'FEEL GOOD' factor. Enjoy the work and live happily.
Humble Request!
Well we all know this but still I want to remind my all friends. These days we are hearing so much about the Use of HELMET while driving two wheeler and Use of Seat Belt while driving Four Wheeler.
I will request to all of you please follow the traffic discipline and use the necessary equipments.Most of us feel that wearing Helmet will hide their smartness and look but dear friends if anything happened to you then no one will look for your smartness or look.At that time only you will be the looser and suffered one.So please think about your family and nearer one and follow the traffic discipline.It will surely help you to avoid any unwanted circumstances.Every equipments have their own significance and uses,so please use them according to their functionality.If anything is existing then it means it has some purpose.
Please use Helmet and Seat Belt,this all is for your safety.
Life is journey,Enjoy the Drive.
Wish you a Happy & Prosperous Life.
I will request to all of you please follow the traffic discipline and use the necessary equipments.Most of us feel that wearing Helmet will hide their smartness and look but dear friends if anything happened to you then no one will look for your smartness or look.At that time only you will be the looser and suffered one.So please think about your family and nearer one and follow the traffic discipline.It will surely help you to avoid any unwanted circumstances.Every equipments have their own significance and uses,so please use them according to their functionality.If anything is existing then it means it has some purpose.
Please use Helmet and Seat Belt,this all is for your safety.
Life is journey,Enjoy the Drive.
Wish you a Happy & Prosperous Life.
My-Name-is-STUPID-COMMON-MAN
Note : In some context I have use the word 'Celebrity' which combines both Politcians and Celebrity.
Do we really know the meaning of Democracy? Do we really respect ‘Democracy’?
‘Democracy’ is ‘Of The People, By The People, For The People’ but in current scenario it is
‘Of the Celebrity, By the Celebrity, For the Celebrity’.
The success of a democracy depends on the political awareness and participation of its people but currently it is going in different direction. India is the largest democratic country of the world and to maintain the prosperity of Democracy, our constitution has provided Fundamental Rights. The main motive behind these rights is ‘Right to equality’ and ‘Growth of All the Segments’.
One of the important Fundamental rights is ‘Freedom of speech and expression’ and the objective is to give chance to everybody to put his or her point and raise concerns. Somehow I feel in today’s time the uses of our fundamental rights is manipulative.
Now to support my views I will give two examples:
1)When Rahul Gandhi landed to Mumbai ,21000 Police Men including Security Guards were there to protect one man.The Cong. Govt has tried all the options to make sure that there should not be any casuality.Now in another scenario when last year group of people were beating the North Indians then at that time the same govt. Didn’t take any strong action. As I mentioned “‘Democracy’ is ‘Of The People, By The People, For The People’” but in this example it seems like “Democracy is “‘Of the Celebrity, By the Celebrity, For the Celebrity’.Samekind of security to SRK.From Airport to his residence.Who will bear the cost of the security to these individuals. Again the Stupid Common Man has no option than pray to God.
2) Recently Due to SRK’s comment, there was dispute between ShivSena and SRK. Too much protest, burning effigy and asking for apology at the sametime SRK was asking what is his fault? What wrong he said?
I feel both ShivSena and SRK are responsible.Both of them are making fun of Democracy.
When IPL had given chance to SRK to select players and at that time neither SRK nor his authority selected any Pakistani Players then what makes him to raise his voice or concern after the closing of selection procedure.When the Selection Precess was on at that time why not he raised his voice.
IS this because of his movie releasing world wide so he needs support from every where?
Everybody knows that our relationship is not well with Pakistan and there are so many regional political parties who are ready to react on any provoking statements. Then in this scenario why to make any provoking statements.
Sameway Shivsena should not react in such manner because so many peoples are there who are earning their livelihood through Movie.Burning posters and protesting the movie will affect Common Man only.
Being as Celeberity doesn’t means that you have rights to say anything.Be responsible and be authentic about the statements because celebrities are role model for all the stupid common man .Common Man loves to watch them ,listen them.
Both Politicians and FilmStars are enjoying their life with Stupid Common Man’s money but still who is suffering ,one and only Stupid Common Man.
Well after thinking on both the aspects ,I expressed my views. I am not supporting any destructive activities but only thing is try to avoid the destructive activity as much as possible.
In any incident neither Politicians nor Filmstars are going to loose anything,its only Common man who will loose every time.
Do we really know the meaning of Democracy? Do we really respect ‘Democracy’?
‘Democracy’ is ‘Of The People, By The People, For The People’ but in current scenario it is
‘Of the Celebrity, By the Celebrity, For the Celebrity’.
The success of a democracy depends on the political awareness and participation of its people but currently it is going in different direction. India is the largest democratic country of the world and to maintain the prosperity of Democracy, our constitution has provided Fundamental Rights. The main motive behind these rights is ‘Right to equality’ and ‘Growth of All the Segments’.
One of the important Fundamental rights is ‘Freedom of speech and expression’ and the objective is to give chance to everybody to put his or her point and raise concerns. Somehow I feel in today’s time the uses of our fundamental rights is manipulative.
Now to support my views I will give two examples:
1)When Rahul Gandhi landed to Mumbai ,21000 Police Men including Security Guards were there to protect one man.The Cong. Govt has tried all the options to make sure that there should not be any casuality.Now in another scenario when last year group of people were beating the North Indians then at that time the same govt. Didn’t take any strong action. As I mentioned “‘Democracy’ is ‘Of The People, By The People, For The People’” but in this example it seems like “Democracy is “‘Of the Celebrity, By the Celebrity, For the Celebrity’.Samekind of security to SRK.From Airport to his residence.Who will bear the cost of the security to these individuals. Again the Stupid Common Man has no option than pray to God.
2) Recently Due to SRK’s comment, there was dispute between ShivSena and SRK. Too much protest, burning effigy and asking for apology at the sametime SRK was asking what is his fault? What wrong he said?
I feel both ShivSena and SRK are responsible.Both of them are making fun of Democracy.
When IPL had given chance to SRK to select players and at that time neither SRK nor his authority selected any Pakistani Players then what makes him to raise his voice or concern after the closing of selection procedure.When the Selection Precess was on at that time why not he raised his voice.
IS this because of his movie releasing world wide so he needs support from every where?
Everybody knows that our relationship is not well with Pakistan and there are so many regional political parties who are ready to react on any provoking statements. Then in this scenario why to make any provoking statements.
Sameway Shivsena should not react in such manner because so many peoples are there who are earning their livelihood through Movie.Burning posters and protesting the movie will affect Common Man only.
Being as Celeberity doesn’t means that you have rights to say anything.Be responsible and be authentic about the statements because celebrities are role model for all the stupid common man .Common Man loves to watch them ,listen them.
Both Politicians and FilmStars are enjoying their life with Stupid Common Man’s money but still who is suffering ,one and only Stupid Common Man.
Well after thinking on both the aspects ,I expressed my views. I am not supporting any destructive activities but only thing is try to avoid the destructive activity as much as possible.
In any incident neither Politicians nor Filmstars are going to loose anything,its only Common man who will loose every time.
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